Ok~ I am trying to do this so noone gets bored, if anyone ever reads this at all, I wish there had been some
book or blogg for me back in the day to help me navigate my new path, there wasn't and althoug I have
come out stronger, with more life, love and laughter than I ever though possible. I am blessed with 3 amazing kids... I don't like to call them "step" because I have watched them grow, helped with homework, rides, advice style, fashion, I have been to just about every hockey, basketball, lacrose, or concert plus a shoulder to cry on, and couldn't love them anymore if they where my own. 

So...before I get to off track... back to my priest telling me about "God's plan for me"..... a freind
said to me a few weeks after Charlie and I began dating, "maybe this was your plan" a man with
3 small children who from what I could tell at the time had the alot, maybe I was meant for them and
them for me?